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Helpin’ The Man

Monday, November 17th, 2008

Before we got married, my husband and I worked for the same hotel chain. I worked in accounting, he was a manager. Since then I’ve moved on to wife and mom and he’s moved up to General Manager of his own hotel. Normally my day to day work doesn’t mix with his, but there are rare chances when I get to help out. The entire hotel is moving to a centralized accounting program and in order to do that they have to back up the entire system through tape drives. These tapes had to be driven out to O’Hare so that they could be shipped to the corporate offices really quickly. They would then take the tapes and convert them onto the new system. So starting first thing Monday morning, when the staff gets started on their work, they are on the new system and all of their old information has been integrated!

Ok, so my job wasn’t all that technical, but when they pay $.75 a mile…it was quite a nice little pay day!

The Kitchen Redo

Monday, November 17th, 2008

A few posts down I showed you the new glass tile back splash I put up in the kitchen. The next stop…bar faucets! There are some really pretty ones out there these days, and the prices are amazing. There is a dark pewter one that would go so well with the tile. It just finishes the whole look of the kitchen. Along with it, I would love a deeper sink. I know, my list never seems to end. But I figure if we’re changing all of these things anyway, we might as well do them all right the first time. Next, you ask? Hardwood floors or new black cabinets. See, I told you the list goes on and on!!

Getting A Jump On Things

Monday, November 17th, 2008

I have finally dug out my treadmill. I figure if I get started now, I can have a worry free holiday season. Eat what I want, and work it off at the same time. I’m easy! Sadly, it’s missing one of the industrial knobs that hold it upright when not in use. It takes up way too much room if it’s left down, so I have to find one online to replace it.

My kids seem to find the treadmill a great toy! Even the three year old knows how to put the key in and turn it on. Not always the safest of playthings, so with the opportunity to put it up…it’s a must! I’ll have to let you know how my holiday workouts go!!

Happy News

Saturday, November 15th, 2008

I just found out that my brother and his wife just bought a million dollar house for less than half of that! How do you do that?? They are selling their home (beautiful) and moving uptown. This home comes with everything. Each bedroom has it’s own bathroom, home theater seating in a huge room in the basement, and even a pond out back stocked with trout.

Mind you, this kind of home wouldn’t be possible here in the Chicago area for that amount of money, but in the West the economy isn’t quite as bad as it is here. I’m sure my property taxes are even higher than his…and my house isn’t worth nearly what his is! The green eyed monster is rearing it’s ugly head, let me tell you!

My Shows!

Thursday, November 13th, 2008

Do you watch any shows on TV? Nothing is more important in my house than my TIVO! I watch a couple of shows religiously. Right now I’m watching Cold Case. It’s one of my favorites, but there are moments when some of the clues are just too far fetched. For example, in tonight’s episode, a case was reopened based on luggage! A girl who died in 1989 has a bag show up (in perfect condition) on the arm of some ‘gangsta’…yeah right!! Still, even though it’s ridiculous to have that as a premise, the writers still do a great job weaving their tale. They do the same kind of things on “Without A Trace” which is another series I Tivo daily!!

Getting Psyched

Wednesday, November 12th, 2008

Have you started thinking “Christmas” yet? It’s hard to believe that there is snow falling outside my window right now. It’s just too early in my mind, but truly I guess it’s here. I’m looking forward to this holiday season. I know there are tough economic times hangin’ around, but I’ve been saving for months to finally have a chance to spoil my family for the holidays, and if I want to buy my sweet husband one of those beautiful Movado watches, I’m gonna do it!

My kids are getting a Wii! They’ve wanted one forever, but have been happy to just have the opportunity to play it with their cousins. Now maybe we can have them over to play at our house.

We normally go to my husband’s aunt’s house for Christmas dinner, but I think I will invite the in laws over for a huge Christmas morning complete with gifts and a wonderful holiday brunch! I can just smell the french toast casserole right now!

Bribery

Wednesday, November 12th, 2008

Last year my husband and I took a trip to Europe. It was amazing, and we had the freedom to skip around different countries for a couple of weeks. With his hotel discounts and trade outs, we got away pretty light on the budget. This year our son is in his first year in Spanish. We’ve told him that if he gets A’s in Spanish on every report card for the year, we’ll take him to Cancun. That means he’ll need a passport, and since they seem to take forever to get, I’m thinking we’ll need to get right on it after the new year. I think it would be so fun to see his face scaling the pyramid in Chichen Itza.

Copying My Sister’s Taste

Tuesday, November 11th, 2008

I wrote a couple of days ago about the back splash tile that I purchased for my little buffet area in my kitchen. It came yesterday, and I spent a few minutes putting it up today. Yes, I literally mean A Few Minutes! I bought the premixed adhesive–and I do have to wait several hours for that to dry before I use my premixed grout–but honestly, this baby could be finished before the hubby gets home! That’s generally how I ease him into my hair brain schemes, like beautiful bamboo blinds above the kitchen sink. I could have said I wanted glass tile–and he would agree that it would look nice, but that would be where it ended. This way–he doesn’t have to even think about the dos and don’ts, it’s already done. And even without the grout (which is brown by the way) I think it looks really sharp!

Getting Our Skinny On

Monday, November 3rd, 2008

I am bound an determined to get into some sexy swimwear come next summer. This weekend my son and I joined an online weightloss support system. My 11 year old was too young to join, but he and I will live, eat and exercise together. He only has a few pounds to lose, whereas I have plenty! I did, however, do 27 sit ups this morning. I would have done thirty, but my 3 year old tipped a clothes hamper over onto my head. I am not too excited to think about my sore abdominals tomorrow…but it was well worth it!

For The Love Of A Pen

Monday, November 3rd, 2008

This weekend my husband’s hotel is having a huge trade show. These are my favorite things because he comes home with tons of fun promotional products for the kids. I’m particularly fond of the pens, we have a million of them, but you know, you still just never have one when you need it. Tonight at the grocery store I purchased one of those packages of 12 blue Bic pens. I LOVE those! But I will tell you, they will all be missing by Friday!

A Fun Purchase

Sunday, October 19th, 2008

Did you notice gas prices lately? I paid $2.99 a gallon to fill up this evening, and it wasn’t even with a car wash. Mind you–it’s still $1.99 more expensive than when I got my license (oh so many years ago), but after paying close to $5 for several weeks during the summer, it was a welcome relief.

It’s times like these that I would love to get a huge gas tank in the back yard and store up a TON of gasoline, just for those times when the gas stations don’t have gas. Remember the late 70’s? Carter was the president. I use a lower case “p” on that, as he was the most inept president of our times…Until November hits when THE MOST INEPT President is elected. I give Obama 1 year before we are just as bad off as we were in the late 70’s……and it will all be his fault! I can’t wait!

Healthier Ways

Sunday, October 19th, 2008

I would love to truly find one of the amazing fat burners available. I’m tired of slow and steady! Give me quick and easy anytime! I’m not too over weight, but I think every woman has a few spots they would love to melt away. I wouldn’t mind a good cardio class at a local gym, but I run into problems when child care comes into play. By the time you add up the cost of joining a gym, plus the monthly fee, plus 2 hours of child care for four kids two or three times a week…I can pretty much afford the best diet pill or liposuction procedure around.

The first step should be to find some really good, low calorie dinners that my family would enjoy. If I can just get a couple of those-I’m set. It’s just hard when everyone is starving. Then I just cook to fill up tummies rather than to worry too much about the caloric intake of each child. I so don’t want them to suffer with weight issues later in life, so it would be really nice to get them started now.

Carmel Apples

Sunday, October 19th, 2008

My aunt has been looking into franchise opportunities recently. She would like to open my FAVORITE little store, a Rocky Mountain Chocolate Factory, and let me just say, I’m all for it!

You know how people (my husband included) have dreams of visiting all of the major league baseball parks before they die? My dream is to visit all of the RMCF! Silly I know, but they are so gooooood! I don’t even need the gourmet candies behind the counter, I just need that Rocky Road Carmel Apple. It’s HUGE and covered with everything! I’m sure it contains the recommended calories for a week in one apple—but sign me up! I’ll eat it slow!

Wanting Some “Married” Time

Sunday, October 19th, 2008

It’s always around this time of year I get the itch to get away with my husband. Probably because it seems to be the season when we always go. Whether it’s Europe or Boston, we always head out together this time of year. I wouldn’t mind making las vegas hotel reservations or just some fun reservations for a weekend in downtown Chicago–just to have some “alone” time with my man. That would be amazing!

It’s hard with so many kids. If my sister takes them, it’s EIGHT total, and that is just unfair to anyone. Yet, everyone else around us works full time and can’t really meld our schedules into theirs, so it may not work just yet! Maybe we could get two rooms connected. Put the kids to bed early in their room…and have the evening all to ourselves in our room. But honestly, even more romantic than “bed” time, is dinner time and just walking the streets holding hands…and having four kids tagging along for either event really dashes the romantic flair.

It’s probably smarter with the uncertainty of the economy, to just stick around home until things start to look up. Maybe just an evening out at a local steakhouse would do!

Too Many Hours

Friday, October 10th, 2008

My husband is desperately in need of a raise. By the time you figure in the hours he works and the amount he brings home, he makes less than minimum wage. That’s his fault, not the hotel’s. They don’t have any business performance management software, or something to monitor his hours. It’s not like they care too much, he’s there working whether he’s supposed to be or not. Saves them a ton of money on another employee. But I hate it.

Getting Healthy

Monday, October 6th, 2008

I have been trying to get this body back in shape. I’m not going to worry about whether it needs diet pills or more exercise, I’m bound and determined to find a way to get healthy. My oldest needs a little help as well, so maybe I’ll involve him on my health crusade (except for maybe the diet pills). I think we’ll work on walking the dog everyday, a little longer each day. That will also give us a little time together to bond a bit more. As he grows older, we seem to be drifting a part a little bit, so that will be nice.

What A Fun Toy

Monday, October 6th, 2008

My mother has a magnetic bracelet, and it’s kind of fun to see just how “particular” my son is about perfection. Her bracelet is made up of box magnets and barrel shaped magnets. As she clicks it on and off, the boxes and barrels can group up together in no particular order. But when my son gets to it, he works until the pattern of box/barrel/box/barrel is acheived. Even if it is only for a short while before it gets messed up again, and he fixes it. What’s more fun is watching my mom search the house when she loses it, only to find it attached to the dryer door in the laundry room. It sticks to the door as she takes the clean clothes out. Such a fun little bracelet.

Winterizing The Yard

Monday, October 6th, 2008

The big job for this weekend was winterizing the yard. It’s really gotten chilly, and I’m sure the days of grilling out are over. So I had to bring out the outdoor furniture covers and we power washed the patio. After cutting back the raspberries, and tossing out all of the trash, I was almost ready to grab some steaks and start the summer all over again! As nice as it is to have the full, amazing foliage in the backyard throughout the summer—it does get really big. So it felt good to trim it back!

Scary Times

Friday, September 26th, 2008

I’ve never looked into self defense products but with the stories going around our newspaper these days, I may just need to. There have been several arrests in just our quite neighborhood. People getting carjacked, robbed at gun point in their garage, it’s just scary. With the kids and I home alone so often when my husband is on business trips, I get really nervous every night just watching the news. Maybe a great big guard dog would be great too!

Battle Of The Bulge

Friday, September 26th, 2008

I have a blogging friend who has been working on her weight just like me. She was trying alli and aside from some of the side effects you hear about, she was seeing some success on it. It really boiled down to living the food restrictions that they give you. As much as I am interested in losing the pounds…I’m not sure I have the will power to restrict my food intake that much. I’m hoping to see how she does before I jump in on my own!

Saving Cash

Friday, September 26th, 2008

We got a call yesterday from an agent promising us cheap auto insurance. We will most likely move our coverage over after Christmas when our current policy expires. Sure, it’s cheaper with the new company, but we’ve already paid for this policy and you know how hard it is to get money back from an insurance company. If you’ve paid it, you might as well finish it or you are just out a ton of cash! So come January, when all of my money has been paid for…we may just move on over!

Paper Products!

Friday, September 26th, 2008

Do you love office supplies? I seem to have an addiction! Before we got married I worked in the accounting department for a major hotel chain. In that job, I was in charge of ordering all of the office supplies for our office, and it was awesome. New Bic pens, steno pads, even the cool, multi-colored post it notes. Even now, 10 years later, I LOVE 5 subject notebooks. I have hundreds of them, and every time I see one I just have to own it too!

He’s Home

Friday, September 19th, 2008

Our nephew was recently released from drug rehab. He’s been in and out of jail, rehab and half way houses for the past three years. I can’t even imagine it, three years in limbo. Well, a hellish limbo, but still-not able to do anything in your life to move you forward. Three wasted years!

His first stint in drug treatment came when he was in high school. He’d gotten high, and stolen a car. Who does that? I mean, I come from a pretty quite, conservative family. We just don’t do those things. In fact, I’m not sure I’ve ever known anyone personally who did do anything like that!

He’s home now, and we are hoping that he’s finally gotten the help that he needs, an dthat he’ll be able to keep himself clean and out of trouble. I’ll keep you posted!

Wanting To FLIP

Thursday, September 11th, 2008

Have you seen the new Flip camcorder? They are amazing! My sister picked one up and to see the amazing images captured on something the size of a cell phone is surprising! We have an old, clunky camcorder that we purchased before our first baby was born–11 years ago! It’s about time to trade up for something much newer than that old dinosaur. I’m going to be asking for a Flip for Christmas! Cross your fingers for me!

Reflections

Friday, September 5th, 2008

I can’t believe it’s September already. Where did the year go? This time last year my husband was looking into San Francisco jobs, well, San Jose…but close enough! He had a really good offer, much more money than he makes now. But when you added in the cost of living and the taxes, we really just couldn’t afford to make the move. Plus it added a ton of hours to his already too many hour work week.

I would have loved it though. Our favorite area in the world is San Francisco! Of course, we’ve only ever been there as tourists. I’m not sure what living there would be like–but hey, if they doubled their salary offer…I’d be there in a minute!

Needing A Rest!!

Friday, September 5th, 2008

It has been a down week! It all started when I thoroughly cleaned my daughters room and carpet. It took hours! Who knew a 5 year old could create such a mess! Since then, I’ve been desperately wishing the were some amazing energy pills around that really worked. I would be an addict if there was a drug that truly gave you energy!

On the days that I’m down NOTHING gets done. My poor husband made dinner Tuesday and Wednesday nights, and then came home to pancakes last night. Yeah, they were the easiest thing we had on hand without going to the grocery store! I’m hoping to start feeling better soon, and then I can knock out some of the other things on my “To Do” list!

To Rent Or To Sell!!

Tuesday, September 2nd, 2008

My in laws finally have a For Sale sign up at our old house. It’s taken MONTHS to get it there. There was a time when they thought they would just keep it and rent it out, but honestly there is more involved to being a landlord than just collection the rent. They would have to contact one of those companies that do background checks and employment screenings to find out if they even want to accept applications. Then you get into the whole collection of funds and evictions when necessary! Let’s just say…I’m thrilled they are just getting their money out of it, and letting it go!

Cooking Fun!!

Tuesday, September 2nd, 2008

I am a huge collector of recipes! When I spent the summer home last year I went through all of my mom’s old recipes that I had grown up with. I have a huge number of recipes to use, but honestly, I just don’t get around to cooking ‘that’ big very often! I’m moving more into the quick throw together to fill tummies than a full service dinner for the six of us! Especially after finding out that my kids love sandwiches for dinner. How easy is that?

My Puppies!!

Tuesday, September 2nd, 2008

We have two dogs in our house. A big one, and a little one…well, at least an old one and a young one. For the past 8 years, we’ve had two dogs. There were a few months last year, after we put our oldest dog down that we only had one, but right before Christmas we got a second one. I’ve been surprised that with one or two dogs the amount we spend on dog supplies really doesn’t change. I did go out a month or so ago and buy them both new puppy beds. Funny how they love them during the day, but when the sun goes down they both still pile into bed with us! It makes for a very strange nights sleep when you are curling your body around the dead weight of two dogs!!

Car Insurance Woes!!

Friday, August 22nd, 2008

As mentioned in the previous post, we spent last weekend at a family reunion up north. We went up Thursday with my brother in law and his daughter and everyone else came up on Friday. Thursday night as we were debating whether or not to build a campfire my brother in laws cell phone rang. It was his son (coming up on Saturday). He had borrowed his sisters car and had been involved in an accident. Luckily all parties involved had car insurance, but now the problem is…they are totaling her car and paying her $2500 less than what she owes on it. How pathetic is that? I mean, I know how car insurance works, and it is important to have. But when you really need it, that’s just not the protection you get! How wrong is that?

Finding The Need

Friday, August 22nd, 2008

We found out last weekend just how important strollers are! We had gone to Wisconsin as a huge extended family and one of my nieces brought her 10 month old baby. My kids adore this child and didn’t mind keeping him company. But as always with camping…the floors are dirty. Even though we were in a lovely villa with hardwood laminate floors–the dirt just comes in. So after his bath, he was relegated to arms. Once your arms got tired from holding this growing boy…we had to pass him on to someone else. It would have been really nice to just put him in his stroller, but it had been forgotten. The next nearest child to him is my nearly 4 year old, and he’s been out of a stroller for 2 years! So we didn’t have one to share either. Oh I remember those days! My kids lived in their car seats if I didn’t have a stroller to strap them into. OH—I wish we had thought of his car seat last week, DUH!

Lookin’ At Hogs

Thursday, August 14th, 2008

As you all know, a week or two ago we celebrated my husbands birthday. It’s always really hard to think of something fun. This year was no different, but since he and the brother in law were planning a trip to “Biker Week” in Sturgis, ND, I thought it would be fun to look into used Harleys. They really aren’t feasible in our situation in life at the moment, but he really likes them and really would look kinda sexy on one. Maybe after the kids are married off, I’ll let him rediscover the days of his lost youth!

Alzheimer’s Memory Walk…Do It!

Thursday, August 7th, 2008

This time last year I blogged about an upcoming Alzheimer’s Memory Walk that I had been wishing I could take part in. We were in the middle of moving at the same time, and juggling kids going to school in the new area while still living in the old one. I remember at that time I decided that I would do it “next year”. Well….next year is now!

My grandfather passed back in 2002 after a long and wonderful life. Sadly, the last several years of his life were lived in a blur for him. I was married and out of state when the full ravages of Alzheimer’s hit him, but before I moved I did have the heartache of having to introduce myself to him whenever I had the chance to see him. He held my first born, although I’m not sure he ever really knew him and possibly didn’t remember him shortly after we left. How sad is that? This is a disease that robs people of their memories, of their families, of their lives! We have got to do something to push the search for a cure, and the Alzheimer’s Memory Walk is a great way to do it. They are looking for Team Captains, if this is something you are able to do…sign up! If it’s something you are unable to do…sign up to walk. It’s 2-3 miles with the promise of so much more. I may just throw my 3 year old in a stroller and take him along for the ride!

Water Party!!

Wednesday, August 6th, 2008

This morning they had a water party at church.  That just meant that the kids got to dress up in their swimming suits, and get wet.  There were little splash pools, a slip ‘n slide, and water balloon launchers.  My kids got soaked, but they were immensly happy.  Lunch was lemonade, PB&J’s, chips and watermelon with popsicles for dessert.

It was pretty toasty outside, so it made for a perfect day to get wet.  And honestly, aside from a few loaves of bread and a watermelon or two, there really wasn’t much involved in the way of costs.  Not a bad party for anyone on a budget!

It Finally Died!!

Saturday, August 2nd, 2008

My husband finally broke! He’s been the one thing keeping me sane on NOT replacing our tattered furniture just yet! The kids are still kind of young, so I was trying to hold myself back until they were out of the ‘destruction’ years, and he was my main cheerleader helping me! Well, last night he caved! He sat down in his tattered old recliner and it crunched underneath him. Not that we can blame that one on the kids, but since he LIVES in that chair when he’s home, we can’t live without it! So if we are replacing that, it’s cheaper to just get the whole matching set! I love the new modern furniture! I haven’t gotten to pick out new furniture in nearly 10 years—so these coming days will be too fun!!

Content To Be Home!

Saturday, August 2nd, 2008

My husband is losing one of his key managers. He’s taking over one of the hotel properties on the East coast. I’ve always wanted to move to the East coast, just for a little while. Of course, if you follow the blog at all, you already know that! The thought of a cross country move right now seems more than my energy level can stand. I would have to find a mover NYC to help out because the husband isn’t home nearly enough to get anything out of him! I’m quite content where we are right now, but it is always fun to see new parts of the country that you just don’t get to experience on a quick vacation!

Plumbing Problems

Saturday, July 26th, 2008

I wish I was more handy around the house! There are things going wrong, but I don’t have a clue how to fix them. Our bathroom fixtures leak. Not all the time, but if you lean back against the toilet tank even a little, water hits the floor. It wouldn’t be such a big deal, except that it’s getting underneath the tile, and I’m sure rotting the floor boards! One day, I can just see whoever happens to be sitting on the pot when it goes, plummeting through the ceiling! How fun will that be? I’ll call the plumber on Monday!

My Poor Sister’s Face

Saturday, July 26th, 2008

Any of you that read my sisters blog know that she’s been using acne treatments for the past month or so. Hoping to finally get her skin to clear up. She’s had freckles her entire life practically, and now she is suffering with the little irritating bumps as well as the zits. She’s nearing 40 and is wishing it would all just go away! They say that most acne can be blamed on hormones, so maybe after Menopause she’ll finally get some relief!

NOT Growing Like A Weed!

Saturday, July 26th, 2008

Is there such a thing as “legal steroids“? I know there are ways to bulk up at the health food stores, but is there really something to help you grow taller? I remember when I was younger, the idea was to drop iodine in milk to kick start a growth spurt. I never did it, but with my boys entering that stage where they seem to be the last ones getting taller, I’m starting to wonder! Mother Nature will kick in any day and they will be the height they are supposed to be someday, you just hate to see them constantly be the littlest ones in their classes!

Birthday’s

Saturday, July 26th, 2008

My husband celebrated his birthday yesterday. We spent the afternoon in the pool before leaving the kids with his parents and heading out for a quiet birthday dinner together. It’s funny the things that come to mind at odd moments. We had been in the pool, and I was trying to come up with birthday gift ideas and at that moment Nautica watches. Timing is everything after all. It just struck me funny because I know that my husband doesn’t wear a watch. Not even on ‘dressy’ occasions. I’m not sure he likes the feeling on his wrist, but his excuse…I don’t want a watch until I can afford a Rolex! OK, good luck with that one, Sweetie!!

Ditching Our Current Phone Company!!

Monday, July 21st, 2008

We have been looking into VoIP Services for the past few months! When you add together our phone bill from our horrible phone company…yes, you’ve all heard of it…and our wireless phone bill, the total is over $300 per month! That is absolutely absurd! The only problem I’m finding is that our DSL is through our phone company, and you have to have your phone hooked up with them in order to keep the DSL. Once we find a private DSL service, we will be moving to a new VOIP site, hopefully like Trillion! Trillion is a VoIP service that provides their services to K-12 districts all over the country. If it’s good enough for our schools…it’s good enough for me!

Finding Golf

Thursday, July 17th, 2008

I have been raised around golf. I don’t remember a time when my dad didn’t go golfing. He got my younger brother into it and eventually even made my husband a set of golf clubs. They weren’t Cobra golf clubs by any means, but they were custom and he loved them. Now my oldest, 11, is looking to get into the sport as well. I know he won’t be a Pro or anything, but I’m happy to see him taking an interest in something healthy.

My Bionic House!!

Monday, July 14th, 2008

Have you ever bought a new house and after the other person moves all of their stuff out, you are left with all of their electronic cords and Cat5e Keystone jacks that you have absolutely no idea what to do with? We have at least 10 of these jacks, and I don’t even know what you use them for. It’s almost as though our house isn’t living up to it’s potential! We only know enough ‘electronic’ stuff to be dangerous–and I am clueless when it comes to these things. I almost need my brother in law to come and give me a tour of my own house! Part of them have something to do with surround sound, and others are strictly internet or something. It’s like a bionic house and I’m so not worthy of it!

Catching The Moments

Monday, July 14th, 2008

My sister purchased one of those new little video cameras. It’s really very cool. She had it at a family party this afternoon, and I have to say, I would LOVE one. I don’t have the greatest memory, and with my kids growing up so fast, I would be so happy to have something so small and compact that can catch all of those cute moments with my kids. They are growing up so fast and I’ve missed so much, soon my little ones won’t have little voices anymore, and it will break my heart not to have it on tape to look back on when they are all grown up.

New Carpet This Week!!

Monday, July 14th, 2008

We are getting new carpet in our living room and dining room. It’s about time! This carpet has been in our house since they day it was built, and that was 12 years ago, and it totally shows. Sadly, when the new carpet gets in I know it’s going to make the furniture look just as shabby as it really is. Hey, there are four kids in this house with a great big dog, NOTHING looks good anymore. I would love to have the hubby look at a couple of furniture catalogs with me. I don’t need anything huge and expensive, just non-holey and minus the stains. I would rather not have a huge cherry red couch, but I’m not closing my mind to anything!

More Options

Friday, July 11th, 2008

I was talking the other day about looking into a diet pill to help kick my body into the weight-loss mode. I just found out that you can get Phentermine without a prescription. That’s big news! I don’t know if it’s the one I will choose, but I thought it was amazing that it’s now available to anyone. My thyroid is dead so it definitely needs a jump start and I haven’t found something to do it that doesn’t make me jittery. There is nothing worse than that! I will have to look a little more into this, and I’ll let you know what I find!

A Family Scare

Wednesday, July 9th, 2008

Colon cancer runs in my family. I just found out that my uncle nearly died after a botched Colonoscopy, they perforated his colon. My mom goes in for the same procedure every two years and my aunt goes in every year. All of this because it’s quite possibly what killed my grandma. It is what killed my sweet aunt, and my other uncle has had half of his colon removed. I wonder if something like a colon cleanse would help with this at all. At least cut back in the frequency of having a Colonoscopy.

Needing To Start Again

Wednesday, July 9th, 2008

I recently bought some diet pills online. They were supposed to be really good, but as usual with me–they make my head hurt. I don’t know what it is, it’s part of the jitters that most people get, but somehow it affects my head. Because of that, I stopped taking them. I was supposed to be taking four pills in the morning and four pills in the afternoon, so I think I will try cutting it in half and taking 2 and 2. Or even 4 and then 2. There is caffeine in them, so I have to be careful just how late I take them or I have a sleepless night! My husband’s twenty year high school reunion is coming up in October, and I would like to look a little better by then!

Financial Security

Wednesday, July 9th, 2008

Do you have a burial policy? I think that is such a morbid thing to call it, but as morbid as it is…it is so necessary these days! The cost of everything is going up, so why not the cost of funerals and burial needs. We are looking at getting life insurance policies for both my husband and I. Just to cover us both in the future. With four kids, it only makes sense.

Summer Vacation

Monday, July 7th, 2008

We are taking the kids back east this summer. Originally we were looking at North Dakota for Biker Week and then a trip to South Dakota for Mt. Rushmore. Sadly, Biker Week fell through for us, which makes driving 1000 miles for 1 thing a little long. So now we are looking into a car rental to drive the opposite direction. Right now there are amazing deals going on over at Advantage.com. In fact, the deals are so good, it’s actually cheaper for us to rent a car from them and drive it the 1500 miles for the trip than it would be to load up our mini van for the same trip. Don’t believe me?? Check out their Specials & Discounts page—and you’ll be amazed too! Plus, right now they are even offering up to a 50% discount on Luxury cars and convertibles.

We are heading to Philadelphia, Washington D.C. and New York City. It’s not a short trip, but saving the wear and tear on our own car is invaluable during this harsh economic times. Now I just wish I could find the same deals on some of the motels we’ll be staying in!

Naperville Rib Fest!!

Monday, July 7th, 2008

We were lucky enough to spend part of our Fourth of July weekend at Rib Fest in Naperville. We try to go every year especially since my brother in law is the Executive Chef at Sweet Baby Ray’s and they have a booth there. This year was really amazing because Sweet Baby Ray’s took the first place trophy for their ribs and the second place trophy for their sauce. It was AWESOME!! The trophies were both bigger than my kids. It was quite an honor!

I “Heart” NY!!

Saturday, July 5th, 2008

Several months ago, I signed up online for a trustedtours.com newsletter. I am a planner when it comes to vacations. I want to make sure I have found every discount and the lowest prices possible. That’s where the newsletter comes in handy! You can find discounted tickets to the best sightseeing tours in 23 cities across America.

This summer we were looking at heading to Sturgis, ND for Biker Week! My husband was going to cook and the kids and I were going to stay at the ranch and ride ATV’s all day and sit around a campfire by night…HEAVEN! On the way home we were going to hit Mount Rushmore, which is kind of cool in and of itself. However, my husband now has to work during Biker Week, and it doesn’t seem cool to drive 1000 miles for one mountain. So I remembered back to my childhood and found the coolest vacation for us.

We had started in Pennsylvania and drove through Amish country. Very interesting for a young ‘tween, but I would be excited to see it again as a grown up. Then we headed south for some Washington dc sightseeing. After a day or two we headed back up to Philly and saw the sights there as well as the coolest stop…Hershey’s. Oh that place was cool! Free chocolate samples and a roller coaster. I bought one of my most treasured sweatshirts there. Then we headed north to New York and even into Canada to see Niagra Falls. It was amazing, and even 24 years later, I still remember so many parts of that trip. I want that for my kids! So that is my plan this summer.

There are so many things to do in New York that that is my one dream spot. I know my kids would love to see the Statue of Liberty and the Empire State Building and Philadelphia is only 666 miles from Chicago. I’ll need to check out a few online travel guides before we leave, but I truly think this will be a trip of a lifetime! I just wish I could sign up for the TrustedTours.com newsletter again…because anyone who signs up is entered into a drawing for a free GPS system…and since we will be driving on this vacation, it would totally come in handy!

A Night With STYX (kind of)

Saturday, July 5th, 2008

We just got home from the street festival where the kids were ANGELIC! And well, Dennis Deyoung was pretty darn awesome himself! My husband was supposed to stop on his way to work and set down our blanket…but he forgot. So we were miles away from the stage, but it was still fun to hear! I have one particular favorite STYX song, and of course, they didn’t play it. So on the way home we blasted “Show Me The Way” about 6 times to make up for it!

The kids each played one game each, and rode quite a few rides. We had Chinese food for dinner (it wasn’t great) but all in all, it was a beautiful evening with good friends and good music!

Birthday Invitations!!

Saturday, July 5th, 2008

I have been getting ready for my son’s 11th birthday this past week, and I have to say…I’m exhausted! Sadly, I did far less for this party than any of the other ones. Usually I make each and every invitation to match the selected theme and send one out to every family member and friend, cursing the fact that we have sooooooo many! This year, I sent a picture in to VistaPrint.com and ordered directly from them! I was out of address labels as well, and picked them up at the same time. Since shipping is free on orders over $50.00 I got my favorite note pads. These are so convenient to sit next to the phone or by the fridge. As messages come in, or if I need to add something to my shopping list, it’s right there. I don’t have a custom design need–so I get the cute city skyline (cause it’s red and matches my kitchen) but if you wanted to create one—you could totally customize your design…and it’s a whale of a buy!!

The invitations themselves were so cute, perfect really! The party is tomorrow, and I’m hoping everything is just as easy with the day as it was with the invitation order…then I will be stress-free for another 2 months, before it’s time to start planning the next birthday party! Why do we parents do this to ourselves??

STYX Is Coming!!

Tuesday, July 1st, 2008

STYX is coming! Well, OK, Dennis DeYoung is coming to play the music of STYX, which is a heck of a lot closer to actual STYX music than any tribute band–so Saturday night we will be at Frontier Days in Arlington Heights to enjoy an evening of STYX and BBQ ribs! The kids are working for tickets in order to play games and ride the rides, but for me, I’m looking forward to an evening out with fun carnival food and good music!

Like Sands Through The Hourglass…

Friday, June 20th, 2008

Good News!!! We are going to leave the in laws for a post or two and focus on the ‘other’ soap opera going on in the extended family!!

This morning my brother in law got home from a romantic weekend away with my sister in law. Sounds pretty normal, huh? That’s where you would be wrong…and where this twisted ‘love affair’ turns Jerry Springer on us all! My brother in law is my brother in law because he is my husband’s oldest brother. My sister in law is my sister in law because she is married to my husbands MIDDLE brother!! That’s right folks! My brother in law is sleeping (and vacationing) with his brother’s wife! Woo Hoo, wasn’t that fun!

Mind you–all of their kids are screwed up! The brother in law has a son in jail for the umpteenth time, and the sister in law has two daughters (un-married) with two babies (different fathers), and honestly–it’s not hard to see that the apples don’t fall too far from the tree!

What in the world is my husband’s family coming too! It’s like drama everyday. Honestly, I should be taking notes and developing a night time soap opera to rival the likes of Dallas!! Sad…Scary and Sad!!

No worries…stay tuned, and I’ll keep you posted on this whole sordid freak show!!

Finishing Up

Friday, June 6th, 2008

I wrote a few days ago about the ‘bridge’ loan my in laws were taking out on their older home to pay for their newer home. With this loan, there has been enough money included to finish fixing up the house. I was over there today and my father in law and brother in law were in laying tongue and groove laminate in the kitchen. It was looking really good. So much better than the crappy floor we had to live with! After the flooring is in, they will fix the front door and put it up for sale. We are all hoping for a quick sale, but here in Illinois, that isn’t always what happens, and with 3 other homes on the block for sale…it might be a long wait!

A New Twist!!

Friday, May 30th, 2008

I’ve gotten a few comments about my previous post. My in laws do own two homes. Both outright at one time, but due to some really poor financial choices, they are losing one. They do have the paid off home up for sale, but it is an older home closer to the city of Chicago. It has a tiny front and back yard, and the garage is too small to park a car in. That leaves you parking on the street. There are two bedrooms in this home–and honestly, old as it is, it’s a nice home. However, prices in that area have dropped considerably and they wouldn’t be able to get the amount out of this house that the owe on their house. But worst of all is the fact that homes aren’t selling in this area nearly fast enough to save their home.

Since I wrote the last post however, they have come up with a possible solution. I’m a little wary of it, but if they plan to keep the home they are in, their hands are tied. They are taking out a $50,000 loan on the home that is for sale. This will pay up the current loan on their house–as well as finish off some of the repairs they need on the other home. Neither mortgage will then require a payment for a year and the home should sell within that time frame. I’m wary because these people don’t move on things! They had 2 years before they got into trouble with the home their in. I pray their house sells, but if not–they will be walking away from this house as well as losing the home that is currently for sale. At that point, the only thing I will have left to offer them, is the boys bedroom upstairs. And I will be LIVID if it comes to that!!

It’s Gotta Be The Grass

Wednesday, May 28th, 2008

My husband is a big time sports fan. It doesn’t matter what it is, if it’s considered a sport-he’s interested. One sport that I actually enjoy more than him is tennis. I’m not a big follower of his golf, he’s not a big follower of my tennis. But with stars like Pete Sampras and Andre’ Agassi what blue blooded woman isn’t going to be excited about tennis?

The biggest event yearly is Wimbledon, and it’s coming up the end of next month! I would LOVE to find Wimbledon debenture tickets and snag the man over to England for a week to truly watch and be a part of the action, partake of the Strawberries and Cream in true English style. Big hats and Mint Juleps for the Kentucky Derby and Strawberries and Cream for Wimbledon…I could get used to both of them!

What is most exciting about Wimbledon, from an American point of view, is that before 1968 most of the winners were European or part of the British Empire and post 1968 most of the winners have been American. With Pete Sampras and the Williams sisters really making Wimbledon their own.

Just once before I die, I would like to actually sit in the stands and watch the event live. Being half a world away, I don’t think that’s too much to ask!

At Last, The End Is Near

Wednesday, May 28th, 2008

Today was the last Wednesday that the kids have school.  They would normally finish up the year on Friday, but they have 2 snow days to make up next week, so next Tuesday is IT!  I’m looking forward to this summer with my kids. Normally I’m a bit intimidated by the prospect, but I’m hoping to make this one really fun and relaxing for all of us.

As far as plans for a summer vacation go, well, I don’t have any!  My sister is taking her family up through the Dakota’s and home and that sounds like a nice trip, especially the Sturgis, North Dakota portion during Biker Week!  This is my last summer with my daughter before she starts Kindergarten next year and my 3 year old before he heads to Pre-school.  So it needs to be jam packed full of memories!

Keep Them Safe Online

Wednesday, May 21st, 2008

No, I don’t mean your kids. I mean your recipes! As you’ve noticed throughout the course of this blog, I tend to share some family favorite dessert recipes. I can’t help it, it’s what I love to make. However, today I found a new site that helps keep all of my recipe posts uniform, and I like that! Take a look at the widget below and then look at the recipe in the post right before this one.

It took less than 2 minutes to sign up, and about 5 minutes to add my photo and my recipe, and voila, a professional looking recipe card to share with all of you! Let me know what you think. Better yet, get online and upload your own recipes, and share them with all of us!

A Sad State Of Affairs

Wednesday, May 21st, 2008

I found out today that my in laws are most likely going to be losing their house. It’s a heart break, but there is nothing in our bank account to help them with. My father in law hasn’t even told my mother in law about this, and I think holding on to this alone is literally killing him. They have a home to move into. It’s completely paid for, and a very nice home for the two of them. It ISN’T however, their home! They’ve lived in this home for 9 years and have loved every minute of it. They have a huge yard with a swimming pool for the kids. But they have been helping two of their sons and that help has ruined them financially.

I think it’s imperative that my mother in law finds out and finds out soon. I think she would much rather have her husband stress free and live with the disappointment for a year or two until they are back on their feet and the real estate market is better. Then they can sell the older home and buy something beautiful again. These may just be the last few years of this man’s life, lets try to remove some of the stress from him. She will be disappointed of course, but again, I think she would rather have him happy and alive then hiding this secret from her while he tries to figure something out!

It’s All In The Thought!!

Tuesday, May 20th, 2008

Last week was my birthday. I have to admit, the older I get, the more I look forward to them. Not necessarily for the gifts or the cute little cards made by my kids, but to honestly revel in the day. It’s the one day of the year you hear from anyone who is special in your life, and that just makes it the best. I got birthday cards from my parents, husband and kids, my little brother, a couple of neighbors…you name it! They had me covered!

The next birthday coming up is my dear friend in Arizona. She sent me not only E-cards but also a greeting card mailed to my house. Little does she know that she’ll be receiving an E-card an hour.

In the past I went to great lengths to create beautiful greeting cards for every occasion. But after baby number 4, I decided that I could have as much fun with the card, if I could find ones that I think are beautiful, and then customize them. This beautiful card above does just that! It looks like something I would have tried to create, and then I can edit everything I want to on the inside.

If you are like me and send out a ton of cards and invitations, check out this website and see if there isn’t just something for you as well. They have a huge selection and at around half the price of a store purchased birthday card–and if you have as many friends and family members with birthdays coming up as I do, it’s a budget saver as well!

Chicago Catering

Monday, May 19th, 2008

Chicago Catering has added a new player with Sweet Baby Ray’s joining the mix!

Mother’s Day Came Early

Friday, May 9th, 2008

The best thing about the kids making Mother’s Day gifts at school is the fact that come Friday (two whole days early) the kids are so excited to share their treasures, that I get my gifts early!  I just got mine from my oldest.  It’s a book that has the beginning of sentences pre-written, and then the kids have to fill in the blank.  My book made me cry.  It reminded me just how forgiving our kids can be of our faults-and I have many.  But this book was filled with heartfelt treasures.  I told my son that the next time he told me that he hated me and that I was the worst mom in the world, I would just read his book.  At 11, he’s mastered the ‘eye roll’ previously set aside for 13 year old girls.

Social Spark Has Exploded

Tuesday, May 6th, 2008

Well, not really! I just wanted a powerful “spark” related word for my title!! Anyway, a month or so ago I was able to sign up for the beta program on Social Spark. Who knew it was so fun to be in on the ground floor of something new? I’ve taken a couple of opportunities for Social Spark, and really like the layout of the site. You can choose from sponsored posts (like this one) or blog sponsorship. I haven’t tried the blog sponsorship yet, but it looks like it could be kind of fun as well.

Now after our little Beta experience, SocialSpark is now open to the masses! You heard me, everyone is invited to participate. Not just in the money making side of it, but in the Social Spark community as well. Every blogger can add their own profile and you can search among them all and find your favorites as well as request friendships, just like with other social networking sites. I love this part because the blogging community as a whole, is made up of some really great people. Including this blogger profile. It happens to be that of my sister, and anything she’s involved in, has to be cool!

Helping Ourselves

Friday, May 2nd, 2008

My sister has battled depression the last several years. Probably longer, but she didn’t notice it until after her daughter was born. She went into the doctors office with 2 older boys and a newborn and mentioned that she thought she was suffering from depression. With all of the news on post partum depression she really thought she would walk out with something to help. She was surprised to end up with an appointment for 2 weeks later to do a blood work up. That’s right, they offered her no immediate help!

It was around that time that I heard about the The Sedona Method and about how you could use it to ‘transcend the pain body’. I thought it might be helpful to her until she could get into to a real doctor to get the medication she needed. I’m happy to say that she learned a lot from it and was able to find the inner peace that she needed to take care of life with 3 small children.

Where A New Earth meets The Secret is the Sedona Method. It is a tool that shows you how to master the law of attraction while still letting go of ego. This is a cancer to the soul and finding the ability to master yourself and your emotions is the one way to truly find peace in your life.

After watching this method work in the life of my sister, I’m really curious about just what else it can do to help us all out in our daily lives!

The Visit

Friday, May 2nd, 2008

We spent the evening at my in laws house.  The kids had the day off of school and my mother in law was off in the evening.  We both have terribly busy evenings this weekend, so this was our shot.  We took the kids and headed to their favorite restaurant, The Old Country Buffet, for dinner.  It was so nice to see my father in law teasing my kids and laughing with them.  It’s been so long since he’s felt ‘light’ enough to play with the kids and to really enjoy them.  I think my kids have been a little shy around him because he has been so quiet and stand-offish lately, but today they just giggled with him and wrestled.  It was just so nice to see.  It was visible that the weight of the world has been lifted off of his shoulders!

Third Birthday Party

Friday, May 2nd, 2008

Speaking of my 2 year old, he has a birthday coming up soon. He’s not really excited about it, because he knows he loses his beloved possession at three. That is for another post! He’s grown up so much in not only size but also his mental abilities. Last year we had an Elmo birthday party, and it seems like just yesterday he still loved all things Sesame Street. However, we’ve now grown a bit and love The Doodle Bops. So you guessed it! I’m looking at a Doodle Bop birthday party. I’ve searched everywhere for birthday invitations and will most likely be getting them custom made. I normally do anyway, I like the look of something a little more special than just a run of the mill birthday invitation.

I usually get my custom paper orders from VistaPrint.com. They have everything I’ve ever needed. Checks, address labels, sticky note pads and even custom ink stamps. My sister runs her own business and swears by them. She’s the one that introduced me to the site and I have to say, I’m sold! I’m not sure I’ll be creating a Doodle Bop invitation in and of itself, but I can upload my own photo’s of my beautiful baby and he’s much cuter than those strange characters on the show.

With graduation coming up in just a few weeks, you will love the selection they have. Or create your own. With free shipping on orders over $50.00, you can’t go wrong there either!

Spring Wonder

Friday, May 2nd, 2008

It’s been a really nice week this week. Not so much on the sun-shiney type “nice” week, but not wet, but still cool. These days are perfect for me. I sat outside yesterday with my 2 year old and marveled at the fact that he’s grown up so much in just the last couple of weeks. He was running across the yard yelling to me exactly what he was doing. Running and talking?? My baby? His legs have suddenly sprouted into these long extremities that carry him where ever he desires to go with no problem at all! He even tried climbing the tree out front. He will need about 5 more inches before that was possible. Every time I would see a car in the distance I would call to him, “Car’s Comin’” and he would run back as fast as he could to sit next to me before the car made it to our yard. He beat it every time. It was just a fun afternoon out with my boy!

Starting To Walk

Friday, May 2nd, 2008

My sister and I are going to be starting an exercise circle. You know, you get a bunch of ladies in your area to get together and walk every morning. The more the merrier! My problem with this is the fact that I don’t own a good pair of walking shoes. I know, four kids and no walking shoes! I go for comfort more than structure and when you walk, you need them both. My sister pointed me to these cute tsubo shoes online. They not only look great, but they look like they offer support for my feet as well. I have really high arches which makes shopping for shoes difficult at times. I would love to wear a cute pair of minnetonka boots but I’m never really sure if I can get my feet into them. I love the ’strappy’ look of these seychelles shoes, but that’s where I get into trouble.

That cute little strap of leather that goes up the top of my foot–wouldn’t fit my foot, and I hate it. I have to have open top shoes, and they have a great selection of these at InfinityShoes.com so I have a number to choose from. But there are still days I would love to put on a cute pair of strappy sandals and actually fit the fashion scene.

Right now you can get free shipping on your order over $59.98, which gives me the perfect reason to shop. And if I order these shoes now, they will be here in time to start our walking.

If you are looking for shoes there is a huge selection of them right at your finger tips, and with free shipping how can you go wrong? I think the kids are going to need new gym shoes for summer camp coming up in a few weeks. Now that’s an even better excuse!

Trusted Tours This Summer

Tuesday, April 15th, 2008

It is currently time to start planning our annual venture into the world as a family. We try to make this the most fun event of the year for our kids. Most of the time we end up at Disney in Florida or somewhere else with a beach. Last summer we spent most of our time playing on the beach. My kids were towheads by the time we got home after spending 6-8 hours everyday soaking up the sun. Playing in the sand reminded me of something funny. When I was younger (and single) I was in love with a guy. He will always be the one that got away, but he was NOTHING that my parents would ever have approved of. But to me, he was heaven sent. I remember as a family we went on vacation to Cancun and oh how I missed that boy! So much that I actually wrote his name in the sand surrounded by a great big heart! I took a picture of it and then remembered something about words coming out backward on film. But I wasn’t sure, and I certainly didn’t want this once in a lifetime photo to be ruined by my own stupidity. So just in case I wrote the same thing but backwards! Same heart, same name, just mirrored. It was pitch black by the time I finished with my heart. I got home and sure enough, I had one image correct and one image backward. Sadly, I don’t know which was which! So there’s that for my whole teaching moment!! Sorry!

This summer I would like to hit the east coast as well, but start in Washington D.C. and work our way up the coast! My 11 year old would love the capitol, my 8 year old wants to see the Statue of Liberty and I know my husband would really love to see Boston. I was surprised at how many Things to do in Boston there are for such a small little state. I really want to walk the Freedom Trail and really just see the city.

I was happy to see that they have a Trusted Tours & Attractions in Boston and New York. My husband and I took one of their sightseeing tours while in San Francisco and we loved it. You really get a chance to see the city you are visiting with these tours. Right now, if you sign up for the Trusted Tours Newsletter, you will be entered to win a hand held GPS system. I need one of those just driving around my neighborhood, I can’t imagine how amazing it would be to have while we drive across the country!

Taking An Online Break

Tuesday, April 15th, 2008

I have been taking a bit of a break from blogging lately.  This is about the only time in the year when my body can stand to be outside working on the yard.  Not to far off from now I will not be venturing out much at all.  I have taken a few before and after pictures over the past week, and I have to say, I can’t wait to be able to get them up, it’s amazing how much nicer the yard looks just by clearing away the old wet/mildew stained leaves and other remnants of winter.  I even pruned the raspberry bushes and I’m actually planning to jar some homemade raspberry jelly.  I can’t wait!

Finding New Friends

Friday, April 4th, 2008

I am really bad! I was introduced to PPP/IZEA through my sister. She was a seasoned pro by the time I started, so all of my questions have been directed to her. If she didn’t have the answer she would hop over to the boards and ask the question for me. That’s how she learned the ropes. If there was a question, there was a huge, fun community to help find the answer. Because of this, she has MANY friends in the network. She’s met many of them IRL. When we were in Vegas she knew everyone, and even though I didn’t get to meet all of them she was able to point them out by name and even by their blog. I was impressed, but I also felt a little sad that I had missed out on the same opportunity. I now visit the boards daily, and have even ventured out a few times to ask and answer questions on my own.

There has recently been a “re-vamp” to the old boards, and the new ones are shiny and streamlined. This makes for a really cool new look. There were so many threads, under so many different categories and now there are a number of threads, but fewer categories. I find this both good and bad. First, I now can find everything new that has been put out. Before if someone added something to a section of the boards I never visited, I wouldn’t even know it was there, even if it was something I would be interested in. So that’s nice. I go to one place and everything is there. The downside of this is that there are now thread after thread of things I wouldn’t mind not seeing. But that is just me being an organizational freak, and I really do need to let up on some of that!

If you haven’t been over to visit the new boards, you are really missing out. Not on just some great information, but on some really great friends as well!!

Starting The Kitchen

Friday, April 4th, 2008

I spent the morning pulling down wallpaper in the kitchen.  Since no one ever comes to visit I’m going to be doing it “little by little”.  That way as I pull the wallpaper down for that section I can spackle and paint that section only.  Then, when all of the sections are done, the kitchen is finished!  Otherwise, I would pull all of the wallpaper down, spackle and sand the whole room and then paint!  Mind you, it would take just as long, it’s just easier for me to get it done this way.  Plus, there is no way I can get the whole thing finished in a week or two–so this way I get one section done, and the rest of the kitchen is still finished and not living in a state of “forgotten” for too long!

Are You A Mommy Blogger?

Friday, April 4th, 2008

I’ve been a stay at home mom for nearly 12 years. It hasn’t always been good times, and I’ve had to find things I could do to earn money at home. I’ve done it all, from day care to data entry, but the best thing I’ve found for mommy bloggers is SocialSpark. Not only has it been fun to discover and write about many new products, but I’ve actually used and purchased many of the products and services that I’ve had the chance to write about. Many of my friends and family members are involved, but besides them, there is a whole community of friends out there to talk to. Most of my favorite blogs are involved in Social Spark as well.

But it really is the added boost to the paycheck every week that really does make it a life saver. Yes, we still have to budget. Yes, we still don’t spend money like crazy. But that added income allows my kids to be involved in programs that we wouldn’t normally be able to afford. Baseball, T-Ball, Ballet, and summer camp. A little extra money in the bank, and time for myself! Now that’s what I’m talkin’ about!

If you are a mommy blogger and would like an introduction to money saving ideas, friends and some income every month, then Social Spark is something for you as well. It’s been nearly a year since I joined, and I’ve loved every minute of it. Head on over and check it out!

I Was A Good Mom, Before I Had Kids

Wednesday, April 2nd, 2008

I read this online today, and it really made me laugh.  I was such a better mom before I had kids.  You know, I had lofty goals and ideas on just how life would go.  I think it went something like me having fresh baked muffins every morning before the kids headed to school.  Or me being the “cool” mom in the neighborhood, out playing football with my boys and their friends.  I’m not even sure they think I’m cool enough to invite to play, and I’m certain my ’skillz’ are outta date as well!

Not much of my original blueprint is in tact.  Rarely do they get anything I thought would be so fun.  In fact, most of the time, I’m just happy their actually fed before their heads hit the pillow at night!

I gotta get better!

Grayson’s Big Day

Sunday, March 30th, 2008

This past weekend we attended the baptism of my nephew Grayson.  It was so neat to see all of the family there together.  Grayson looked darling in his little outfit, and now he wants a suit.  What a kid!

After the service we went to dinner at my brother in laws restaurant, and all I can say is YUM!  We ate in the private dining room which made it a lot easier to chase my kids.  We had threatened all of the kids with corporal punishment if they left the room.

I had some St. Louis Ribs, roasted chicken and of course, my favorite, the Red Beans and Rice!

St. Patty’s Day

Monday, March 17th, 2008

Do you do anything fun in your family to celebrate this “odd” little day?  I have to admit we go all out in ours!  We have a leprechaun that comes and messes everything up!  The kids have a hard time finding their backpacks on the 17th of March, the pesky leprechaun has hidden them underneath the rocking chair.  All of the couch cushions have been moved to the kitchen table–and oddly enough all of the milk has been dyed green along with the eggs and waffles!  The older kids (in the know) have a lot of fun watching the delight of the younger kids as they discover the strange tricks that have been played on them by the friendly leprechaun!  They then find their best green to wear for the day to keep in good graces with the leprechaun so he doesn’t take it out on them next year!
What does your family do?

Hopefully The End

Wednesday, March 12th, 2008

I just got off the phone with my mother in law. Good news finally! My nephew has been in and out of jail and drug rehabilitation for several years now. He keeps getting back into the drug scene and his father keeps reporting him. I don’t blame him, I really do want the best for this boy. But at the same time, he is on his final shot. One more relapse, and he’s in prison to finish out his 2 year sentence. I’m not sure I could turn him in with that staring at me. Anyway, enough about me! This boy is out of rehab, and back into a halfway house. He seems to be doing really well and is currently working two jobs. In the last halfway house he was in school and doing really well. This current one doesn’t offer schooling, but hopefully when he is out in a month or two, he can get himself back into school. I’m so hopeful for him again, but at the same time, we’ve been here before. Send him “happy thoughts” if you could!

Making Beautiful Hair

Wednesday, March 12th, 2008

This is my niece Blake. I was given a sample of some pretty cool hair product, but everyone in our family has really short hair. So we decided to test it out on Blake’s beautiful hair. She’s darling in any picture, but you can see her hair in the first picture is a little duller and kind of stringy. Desperately in need of a good shampoo. The after picture you can just see the shine and silkiness that has been brought to her hair.

There are a couple of things I really like right off hand about naked naturals shampoo. First off, it’s an all natural shampoo. Every ingredient that is included is natural and can really look to strengthen and nourish your hair at the same time as clean it. The other thing I love, especially for me, is that the scent is lavender which brings with it some of the natural aroma-therapy that you get with this scent, and that is calming! It quite literally relaxes you. When my kids were little you could put them in a lavender bath and they would be sound asleep just a little while afterward. In the picture it looks as though Blake is about ready to head to bed herself. So as a night time routine including a hot shower or bath, this scent could be HEAVEN!

If you have longer hair that you would love to have back in control, shiny, silky and smelling fabulous…head on over and pick you up your own. I’ll definitely be doing that for myself!!

Hey, I’ve Said That…

Thursday, March 6th, 2008

I found this video over on Marissa’s blog, and it was definitely blog worthy! The woman got a standing ovation when she was finished, and I tell you–she deserved it. I would love to have the words to this thing–I say every one of the lines several times a day! Great job!

A Winter Calamity

Monday, March 3rd, 2008

As we were driving out of the cul de sac this past weekend we noticed that our neighbors trampoline had bit the dust. They leave it up and together all year long, and this year with all of the snow, the frame finally buckled. It’s a death that is just killing my kids! There is no